Court Orders: What You Can Do When Agreements Aren’t Followed

Whether the next step is communication, documentation, enforcement, or modification, we’re here to answer your questions and guide you toward a resolution.

When you reach the end of a family law case—whether involving custody, parenting time, support, or property division—you expect the court order or settlement agreement to bring clarity and stability. For many families, it does. But for others, challenges arise when one party fails to follow the court’s orders.

At The Betz Law Firm, we understand how stressful and frustrating this can feel. Our locally owned, relationship-driven approach means we take the time to understand your situation and help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

1. Document What Is Happening

Before taking legal action, it helps to gather clear information. Documentation can include:

• Missed pick-ups or drop-offs
• Text messages, emails, or written communications
• Missed support payments
• Violations of specific parenting provisions
• The dates and details of each incident

These data points may support your request for enforcement if the matter returns to court.

2. Communicate When Possible

In some situations, a calm and clear conversation may resolve a misunderstanding. Miscommunications about timing, school events, or scheduling changes do occur. If communication feels safe and reasonable, you may choose to:

• Clarify expectations
• Provide a copy of the court order
• Confirm future plans in writing

If communication is strained or conflict is high, it is often better to document the issue and seek guidance before engaging further.

3. File a Motion for Contempt or Enforcement

When a court order continues to be ignored, you may file a motion asking the court to enforce the existing order. This is commonly referred to as a Motion for Contempt or Motion for Enforcement.

The court may:

• Reinstate or clarify the order
• Compensate you for lost parenting time
• Address unpaid support
• Order make-up visitation
• Impose additional requirements on the violating party

The goal is not punishment—it is compliance. Missouri courts focus on protecting children’s stability and ensuring that all parties follow legally binding decisions.

4. Request a Modification if Circumstances Change

Sometimes, repeated noncompliance reflects a deeper issue. If the current order no longer fits your family’s needs or circumstances have changed in a meaningful way, you may consider filing a Motion to Modify.

A modification could adjust:

• Parenting schedules
• Decision-making rights
• Support amounts
• Exchange locations
• Holiday arrangements

Modifications allow the court to update the order to better align with current realities.

5. Protecting Your Child’s Well-Being

In cases where violations affect your child’s safety or emotional health—such as ongoing conflict, instability, or exposure to concerning behavior—swift action is essential.

You may request temporary changes or court intervention to safeguard your child while the matter is reviewed.

At The Betz Law Firm, our team helps parents navigate these challenges with care and clarity, ensuring your concerns are heard and addressed.