St. Louis Child Support Lawyers

To protect your rights and those of your child, allow our staff of experienced child support lawyers to help you.

No one can dispute that raising a child costs a lot of money. In St. Louis, it is common for a non-custodial parent to help with those expenses through child support payments to the custodial parent. Child support payments are meant to help offset the cost of education, living expenses, health care, and the general care of the child or children.

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Áine Ó T.
1 month ago
Debbye and David were so lovely! They were on top of things from one day one and helped make things go so smoothly and speed things along!
Tom B.
5 months ago
David Betz was great to work with. He was patient, listened carefully, and was able to make non-biased, rational recommendations that both parties would agree to. I could tell he has a lot of mediation experience as he cut right through the emotional vomit and laid out the facts. His wisdom greatly expedited a resolution to my case and avoided a costly trial. I would highly recommend the Betz Law Firm to anyone seeking a sensible, professional mediation experience.
Courtney
5 months ago
Unfortunately, I found myself in a difficult situation and in need of mediation; Mr. Betz stepped up with only a moments notice. My previous experience with mediation was horrific, and I was very pleasantly surprised by the experience with Mr. Betz. His calm demeanor and efficiency was greatly appreciated, not to mention his willingness to step into an unknown situation and make it better, so very thankful.
Robert B.
9 months ago
I experienced a very difficult divorce process 6 years ago. There's no need to get into the details, but calling it difficult is quite an understatement. My now former spouse had unlimited funds for attorney's fees, and I did not. The whole process took 20 months from start to finish. My primary concern was for the future of both children. David made his decisions on facts and what he believed to be best for the kids. He did an incredible job of remaining objective amidst all the distractions and what I'll call the antics of the other three attorneys, yes, three attorneys employed by the opposing side at different times during the 20 months. David's recommendations to the judge never wavered from what was best for the kids. I am writing this review now because I can definitely state that David's recommendations were what was best for the kids. The kids are now 17 and 15, and they are thriving. Yes, I did my part as a parent, but I would never have had the chance to do so without the intelligence and integrity of David. He has the right combination of life experience, courage, and intelligence to earn the trust of anyone representing their children. I cannot say enough good things about David's commitment to being an exemplary GAL. I will close by saying that I am a paramedic and have been for a long time. Paramedics judge each other on whether we would want a particular paramedic working on our children in an emergency. Using that benchmark, I trust David to work on behalf of my kids, and if you have the opportunity to have David represent your children, you can trust him to advocate for the most vulnerable individuals in a divorce who need protection the most.
Ianthe S.
10 months ago
I contacted the Betz Law Firm to handle changing my name this year. The firm was very professional and returned my inquiry quickly. I worked with Debbye and she handled everything with accuracy and kindness. Everything was handled quickly and easily. Debbye displayed her excellent knowledge of the process as she walked me through everything. Overall, they took great care of me. Truly a white glove experience! I cannot recommend Betz highly enough and will be back to any future legal needs.
Dr. Tracy M.
11 months ago
Attorney David Betz was appointed Guardian ad Litem to represent my minor child during a highly contested divorce proceeding. Attorney Betz developed a structured and safe plan during the proceeding and recommended a final arrangement that was in the best interest of my minor child to keep him protected and ensure his safety.
B D.
1 year ago
David was very helpful and respectful all around. He took the time to hear my Son’s concerns and made him feel comfortable sharing these concerns. He was always on time and ready to handle our case, always prepared. I appreciate that, to me it shows that he really does care about the families he’s helping. I highly recommend him if you are considering a GAL for your case.
John E.
1 year ago
I appreciate Mr. Betz taking the time and effort to get to know everyone, especially including by being a part of depositions, and helping to facilitate an opportunity for us to move forward amicably in a co-parenting dynamic. I would recommend him.
Robert B.
1 year ago
I have known David for many years, working on cases and outside of work. He is a fantastic advocate, has high standards, is well respected and sticks to his principles. He gets the struggles parents can face raising kids these days. I really admire his courage and how he fights to make a positive difference in people's lives, especially for his clients.
Chris C.
1 year ago
The Betz law firm did an amazing and efficient job executing on my non-contested divorce. My ex drug his feet and the law firm kept on him and even was prepared to go forward with a non-response judgement. My ex responded the day before we went for a non-responsive judgement and agreed, finally. The judge signed off within the week and I was notified via email that my divorce was final a few days prior to receiving the email. I never had to go to their office or to court to face my ex. From start to finish, this took 6 months almost to the day. Again, my ex drug his feet, this could have probably gone faster. Thank you Debbye Laskey for keeping the paperwork straight and to Mr. Betz for the legal components.
AB M.
1 year ago
Mr. Betz is an exceptional attorney who has been an advisor for me and represented many of my clients. He is well respected within the legal community and trusted by all.
Nick P.
1 year ago
David and his team are excellent to work with. The care, expertise, along with the ease and frequency of communications always kept me well informed and aware of the status of my situation. I cannot recommend The Betz Law Firm enough and I won’t hesitate to call them again in the future if I ever require their services again.
Amanda A.
2 years ago
David was amazing in my case. He was very helpful and very informative and also very understanding. Easy to communicate with.
Ian B.
2 years ago
Mr Betz worked with both of us for us with our mediation, no matter how frustrating she was becoming. He handled the situation very calmly and professionally. Thank you for helping it come to a resolution.
mark H.
2 years ago
I have worked with Mr. Betz a number of times and have always found him to be a wonderful GAL and mediator. He does the work, gets things done, and cares about the tasks and people involved. I highly recommend him as both a GAL and mediator.
Ray W.
2 years ago
I hired the services of David Betz for purposes of getting a name change and him and his paralegal Debbye were professional, answered emails promptly, and were able to handle a complication in my case with no problems. Would highly recommend Mr. Betz.
Laura R.
2 years ago
Mr. Betz is a knowledgeable and helpful straight shooter who truly cares about kids! Highly recommend.
Janice M.
3 years ago
The Betz Law Firm assisted my son with legally changing his name. They were extremely easy to work and very helpful!!!
Oliver W.
3 years ago
David Betz and Debbye Lasky were both wonderful to work with and accomplished what I needed done.
Russell M.
4 years ago
David was very professional and helpful for our child during a recent litigation. I would highly recommend his firm for GAL service or attorney service!
Christian E.
4 years ago
Fair Guardian Ad Litem who has walked a tightrope of a custody case
Isaac
4 years ago
I was very impressed with Mr. Betz’s service. He was the GAL for my children. He was very professional, fair-but-caring and advocated tireless for the children’s best interests. He took his time to talk to them about their wishes, giving us sound advice and guided us through an otherwise contentious process. I appreciated his professionalism, ethics and would highly recommend him.
Ann F.
5 years ago
My son and I have worked with David Betz for several years in custody matters concerning my grandson. I have found him to be genuinely concerned with our situation and responsive to our needs. He listens carefully and handles matters promptly. He is realistic in evaluating situations and helps us to arrive at the best possible alternatives. I highly recommend him for family law matters.
Bu J.
5 years ago
I am a transfeminine nonbinary person that used The Betz Firm to get my name changed. They were extremely affirming, and excited to work with me through this as it was an immensely huge deal for me. Thank you Betz Firm, for making this a reality for me!
Mason J.
5 years ago
Joel and David are extremely helpful and helped with everything I needed. They are kind and worked with me with all of my needs regarding my case! I would recommend to everyone!

Who Qualifies for Child Support?

The custodial parent of children under 18 is generally entitled to receive child support payments from the non-custodial parent. The age requirement can be extended if the child is mentally or physically impaired or if the child’s education is extended past high school.

How is the amount determined?

The Missouri Supreme Court has guidelines in place, known as Form 14, that calculate the amount of support to be paid by a non-custodial parent. This form looks at gross incomes, the number of children involved, other children supported by the non-custodial parent, health insurance, childcare costs, and the amount of time spent with each parent. The court may make modifications due to extenuating circumstances, so an experienced St. Louis child support attorney should always assist you when filling out these forms. Our firm will prioritize your and your child’s best interests and work diligently to meet your specific needs.

St. Louis Child Support Assistance

It is often emotional to deal with these types of issues when your child’s welfare is at stake. Our team of experienced child support lawyers knows that these matters must be handled delicately to resolve the problem amicably.

As your personal brigade fighting to obtain support for your child, our firm will make sure that you understand all of the guidelines set out by the state of Missouri and how they are going to affect your family. We have helped many single parents obtain child support in the past by:

  • Obtaining an order to collect child support
  • Modifying existing child support agreements to reflect current needs
  • Enforcing child support orders that the non-custodial parent is ignoring
  • Assisting with issues regarding the paternity of minor children

These are emotional issues, often surrounded by chaos and turmoil as you try to cope with the pressures of being a single parent. As a family law firm, we understand your anguish and do our utmost to make the entire process as easy as possible for you and your child.

Child Support and Dissolution of Marriage

Attempting to work out details of child support amid divorce proceedings is emotionally draining. In St. Louis, many judges prefer that the parents of minor children come to their own amicable child support decision before a divorce is granted.

Although our firm consists of seasoned litigators who have spent many hours in a courtroom, we prefer to try to resolve the issues surrounding children through mediation. This is a more civilized approach to solving the complexities of determining child support and co-parenting decisions.

In a world where two-income households are dominant and child care is often necessary, Form 14 might not always fit a family’s needs perfectly. Our team of top-notch child support lawyers will help you and your parenting partner identify alternatives that can meet your needs as well as the best interests of your child.

Can an Order for Child Support Be Modified?

If a change in circumstance is significant enough to affect your child’s welfare, our firm can assist you in asking the courts for a support modification. The criteria for such changes must show that the current support order is unreasonable in light of these changes. We can help you present the evidence the courts require to obtain the modifications you need.

Will Joint Custody or Visitation Affect the Child Support Order?

Suppose a court orders visitation or joint custody; a parent may not go against that order without good cause. Doing so could result in a reduction in child support payments. If you have a valid reason for denying visitation, you should first speak with one of our attorneys. We can help you file the necessary paperwork to adjust the visitation or custody order so your child support is unaffected.

A custodial parent is also in danger of losing their child support if they voluntarily allow the other parent to have physical custody of the child for more than 30 days. Again, our team of child support experts will help you retain your child support if extenuating circumstances prevail.

Child Support For Children of Unmarried Parents

A divorce is not the only instance where the courts order child support payments. Our firm deals with paternity issues all of the time and has helped hundreds of single moms obtain support orders for fathers who were never a part of their household.

Can a Child Support Order Be Terminated?

An order for child support will always include an age stipulation. This is usually 18 but can be extended to 21 if the child continues their education. No court order is needed to terminate support beyond a child’s 21st birthday.

If the child gets married, joins the military, or becomes otherwise emancipated before that time, the custodial parent needs to file a letter with the court notifying them of the change in status and requesting that child support payments be stopped.

The parent paying support can also file a similar letter. However, they may need to prove that the child has become emancipated.

Child Support Lawyers

Your child’s well-being and future should always be prioritized despite the circumstances. As a team, our firm has learned that the best approach to dealing with family law issues like child support is to try and work out the differences in a productive and friendly manner. We have found that this approach paves the way for future problems to be handled with mutual respect and the child’s best interest as a priority.

Speak With an Experienced Attorney

Our firm uses experience, good communication, and availability to help families navigate life-changing events.

SaveAnswers to Frequently Asked Questions About Child Support

Child support is meant to cover basic living necessities. Typical expenses expected to be paid for are:

  • Food
  • Housing
  • Medical
  • Education

Generally, excessively expensive or superfluous items are not covered.

Support will generally be calculated based on the child’s needs and each parent’s financial situation. An example of the former would be if a child goes to a private school. A couple might find it reasonable to have that child continue to attend private school and raise the level of support accordingly. An example of the latter would be one parent being a top-tier earner. They will likely be expected to pay more in support if they make a significant amount.

The number you settle on in your divorce is not set in stone. If certain factors change in your or your child’s life that may constitute an adjustment, you can negotiate that number privately or in court.

Child support payments usually end when a child turns 18, though exceptions exist.

When you agree on a child support payment, your former spouse is legally obligated to pay it. If they do not, you can carry out legal action against them. This is best done with the help of a lawyer.

Read More: What if My Spouse is Hiding Money to Avoid Paying Child Support?

As we mentioned above, stakes are very high when negotiating child support. Whether you pay for or receive it, you want the best deal possible. This is generally accomplished with the help of an experienced divorce attorney. They can leverage their extensive legal experience to negotiate a favorable deal for you.

Going through a divorce can be very frustrating. However, if you are well-informed, the process will be significantly easier. The best way to educate yourself is by speaking with a St. Louis divorce lawyer you can trust to be an excellent source of information throughout your negotiations.

For a FREE 30-minute Phone Consultation, call the Betz Law Firm at (314) 801-8488