When a marriage reaches a breaking point, many couples feel torn between two options — divorce or legal separation.
Both paths allow spouses to live apart and establish clear boundaries, but the legal and emotional implications differ significantly. Understanding these distinctions can help you make the choice that best suits your family, finances, and future.
At The Betz Law Firm, we can help you understand how Missouri law views divorce and legal separation — and what you should consider before deciding which path to take.
Understanding Legal Separation in Missouri
Legal separation allows married couples to live apart under a court order while remaining legally married. It can be a suitable option when:
- You or your spouse have religious, personal, or financial reasons to stay legally married
- There’s hope for reconciliation after time apart
- You need formal arrangements for child custody, support, or property without fully dissolving the marriage
During a legal separation, the court can establish orders for:
- Child custody and visitation
- Child support and spousal maintenance (alimony)
- Division of property and debts
Although you are still legally married, both spouses gain protection and structure during the separation period. Either spouse can later ask the court to convert the separation into a divorce after at least 90 days.
How Divorce Differs
Divorce — known legally as a dissolution of marriage in Missouri — is the complete legal ending of a marriage. Once finalized, both parties are free to remarry and live independent legal lives.
A divorce decree also addresses the same issues as a separation decree:
However, divorce permanently ends the marital relationship, which can have implications for taxes, insurance, and inheritance.
At The Betz Law Firm, we help clients not only navigate the legal process but also understand how divorce may affect long-term stability — from finances to family dynamics.
Speak with a Trusted St. Louis Family Law Attorney
Choosing between divorce and legal separation is never an easy decision. It’s a deeply personal decision that affects your family, your finances, and your future. At The Betz Law Firm, we understand the emotional weight behind these choices. Our team provides clear guidance and steady support, helping you move forward with confidence — whether that means rebuilding your marriage or taking the next step toward independence.