Divorce is never easy, but how you choose to go through it can make a significant difference in your stress level, time investment, and financial well-being. At The Betz Law Firm, we regularly help clients in St. Louis and surrounding Missouri communities understand their options: mediation or litigation.
At The Betz Law Firm, we are experienced divorce and family law attorneys. However, our principal partner, David Betz, is also experienced in resolving cases through mediation.
Mediation is a private, voluntary process where a neutral third party (a mediator) helps spouses reach agreements on key divorce issues such as:
Mediation is a non-adversarial process, meaning both parties work together to find a fair outcome — rather than arguing through attorneys in a courtroom.
Litigation involves resolving your divorce through the Missouri court system. Each party typically hires an attorney, and a judge will make the final decisions if you cannot reach an agreement. Litigation is appropriate when:
While necessary in some cases, litigation is often more time-consuming, expensive, and emotionally taxing than mediation.
Cost
Timeframe
Privacy
Control
Tone
Typically lower
Faster (weeks to a few months)
Confidential
You and your spouse decide
Collaborative
Often significantly higher
Slower (months to over a year)
Public court records
A judge decides
Adversarial
Mediation is not right for everyone. If there is a history of domestic violence, dishonesty about finances, or if one party refuses to negotiate, litigation may be the only option. Our firm will ensure that you’re protected and effectively advocated for in court, if that’s what your case requires.
At The Betz Law Firm, we support our clients in both mediation and litigation. Our approach is to guide you toward the most efficient, fair, and emotionally manageable path, whether that involves negotiation or the courtroom.
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