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How Many Years Do You Have to Be Married to Get Alimony in Missouri?

Understand how the length of your marriage affects alimony in Missouri. Contact us today for a free consultation.

When going through a divorce, one of the most common questions couples have is whether spousal support, also known as alimony or maintenance, will be awarded. In Missouri, the duration of the marriage is a crucial factor in determining whether one spouse will be required to pay alimony to the other. However, how many years you need to be married to qualify for alimony is more nuanced than simply meeting a specific time threshold.

At The Betz Law Firm, we can help you understand your rights and options and ensure that your financial interests are protected during the divorce process.

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Understanding Alimony in Missouri

Alimony is a court-ordered financial support that one spouse pays to the other following a divorce. The primary purpose of alimony is to help the lower-earning spouse maintain a standard of living similar to that enjoyed during the marriage, at least for a period of time.

Missouri law does not provide a set number of years a couple must marry before alimony can be awarded. Instead, the court considers various factors to determine whether alimony is appropriate, how much should be awarded, and for how long.

Factors the Court Considers When Awarding Alimony

Missouri courts have broad discretion when it comes to awarding alimony. They consider numerous factors, including but not limited to:

  • Duration of the Marriage
    • While there are no strict rules, the duration of the marriage is a significant factor. Generally, longer marriages are more likely to result in alimony awards, especially when one spouse has been financially dependent on the other.
  • Financial Resources of Both Parties
    • The court will assess the financial situation of both spouses. This includes income, assets, debts, and earning a living independently. If one spouse lacks sufficient property and income to provide for their reasonable needs, alimony may be awarded.
  • Standard of Living During the Marriage
    • Another key consideration is the lifestyle maintained during the marriage. The court aims to ensure that both parties maintain a similar living standard after the divorce.
  • Age and Physical Condition of the Spouses
    • Both spouses’ age, health, and physical condition are considered. If one spouse is elderly or has significant health issues that limit their ability to work, this may influence the court’s decision to award alimony.
  • Earning Capacity and Education
    • The court considers both spouses’ earning capacity, educational background, and employment history. If one spouse sacrificed their career or education for the sake of the marriage, this may justify an alimony award.
  • Contributions to the Marriage
    • Contributions to the marriage, including non-economic contributions like homemaking or child-rearing, are also considered. For example, a spouse who supported the family by staying home to raise children may be more likely to receive alimony.
  • Conduct of the Parties
    • While Missouri is a no-fault divorce state, meaning that marital misconduct (such as infidelity) is generally not considered in the division of property, it can still play a role in alimony decisions if one party’s conduct has had a significant financial impact on the other.
  • Time Needed for Education or Training
    • If the spouse seeking alimony needs time to acquire education or training to find appropriate employment, the court may award alimony for that period.

Duration of Alimony Payments

If the court determines that alimony is appropriate, it must decide on the payment duration. Missouri courts can award alimony for a set period (rehabilitative alimony) indefinitely or until a specific event occurs, such as the recipient’s remarriage or the death of either party.

  • Short-Term Marriages (Less than 5 Years)
    • Alimony is less likely to be awarded in marriages lasting less than five years unless there are extraordinary circumstances. If awarded, it is typically for a short duration and intended to help the lower-earning spouse transition to financial independence.
  • Medium-Term Marriages (5-15 Years)
    • Alimony is more common in marriages lasting between five and fifteen years, mainly if one spouse has been financially dependent on the other. The duration of alimony may correspond to the length of time needed for the recipient spouse to gain self-sufficiency.
  • Long-Term Marriages (More than 15 Years)
    • Alimony is more likely to be awarded in marriages lasting more than fifteen years, especially if the spouses have a significant disparity in earning power. In long-term marriages, the court may award alimony indefinitely, mainly if the recipient spouse is unlikely to become financially independent due to age, health, or work experience.

Modifying or Terminating Alimony

It’s important to note that alimony awards in Missouri can be modified or terminated under certain circumstances. Common reasons for modification or termination include:

  • Remarriage: If the recipient spouse remarries, alimony payments generally terminate.
  • Cohabitation: If the recipient spouse cohabitates with another person in a marriage-like relationship, the court may terminate or reduce alimony.
  • Significant Change in Circumstances: The court may modify the alimony award if either party’s financial circumstances substantially change, such as a job loss or a significant income increase.

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Missouri does not have a specific requirement for the number of years a couple must be married to qualify for alimony. However, the duration of the marriage is a crucial factor, with longer marriages generally leading to a higher likelihood of alimony being awarded. The court’s primary concern is ensuring fairness and that the financial needs of both parties are addressed in the wake of a divorce.

If you are facing a divorce and have questions about alimony, it is crucial to consult with an experienced family law attorney. At The Betz Law Firm, we can help you understand your rights and options and ensure that your financial interests are protected during the divorce process.

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