One of the most common questions in child custody cases is: “At what age can my child decide which parent they want to live with?” In Missouri, there is no specific age at which a child can unilaterally choose their custodial parent. However, as children get older, the court gives increasing weight to their preferences when making custody decisions.
If you have questions about how your child’s preference may impact your custody case, contact The Betz Law Firm.
While there’s no magic age, Missouri courts generally start giving some consideration to a child’s custodial preference around age 12-14. As children enter their mid-teens, their opinion is given more significant weight, though it’s still not the only factor.
The judge will evaluate:
Even if an older teen expresses a strong custodial preference, the court may rule differently if:
In Missouri, children do not typically testify in open court about custody preferences. Instead, the judge may:
While a mature child’s preference is important, Missouri courts are ultimately focused on determining what custody arrangement is in the child’s overall best interests. This holistic view considers factors like:
There is no definitive age at which a child in Missouri can choose which parent to live with. As children mature, especially into their teens, their reasoned preferences are given more weight – but they are just one of many factors the court considers when determining custody arrangements. If you have questions about how a child’s preference may impact your custody case, contact The Betz Law Firm.
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